Quiz: Am I dating a narcissist?

How did they act when you first started dating?

Super lovey-dovey. They thought our relationship was written in the stars!

Extra charming. They really knew how to lay it on.

A little flirtatious. Nothing too overkill, though!

Friendly and respectful. They had a healthy sense of boundaries.

What are you both likely to chat about over dinner?

Both? That’s funny—they’re usually dominating the conversation.

They might ask about my day only to change the subject and talk about theirs.

They’ll talk about their day, but we’ll also take time to talk about mine.

Anything and everything! They usually let me start the conversation.

With 1 being “not very” and 10 being “extremely,” how reliable are they?

1-2. It feels like they’re constantly canceling our dates and hangouts.

3-5. It’s pretty much a 50/50 if they’ll follow through or not.

6-8. They’re reliable when it counts.

9-10. If they make a promise, they’ll always follow through.

You forget to reply to their text for a couple of hours. How do they respond?

They’re pretty annoyed. I can expect a slew of follow-up texts on my phone.

They might send 1-2 texts to see what’s taking so long.

They’re pretty chill and probably won’t double-text.

They don’t care. If it’s really urgent, they’ll just call me.

They ask you for a favor that you aren’t super comfortable with. How do they respond when you refuse?

They throw a tantrum. It’s like I’m dealing with a 5-year-old!

They get a little guilt-trippy in hopes that they’ll change my mind.

They’re a little disappointed, but they respect my decision.

They accept my decision with no questions asked.

You’re at a nice restaurant and getting ready to order. How do they treat the wait staff?

Pretty rude—nothing the waiter does seems to be good enough.

Not great. They’re nit-picky about the food and seating.

All right. They aren’t overly nice, but they aren’t rude.

Great! They’re really friendly with the waiter and leave a good tip.

How do they speak about the people around them?

Terribly. They talk crap about pretty much everyone around them.

Not great. They’re pretty critical of their friends, co-workers, and acquaintances.

Mostly respectfully. They gossip on occasion, but it’s not the norm.

Very respectfully. They don’t have a bad word to say about anyone.

How many friends do they have?

Practically none. They burn bridges really easily.

Only a couple. They don’t hang onto friends for a long time.

A good amount. They have a close circle of friends that they can rely on.

So many! They’re friends (or at least friendly) with almost everyone.

Describe your partner in two words.

Arrogant and proud.

Overconfident and self-assured.

Coolheaded and indifferent.

Respectful and humble.

You just had a rough day. How do they respond?

“If you think that’s bad, wait until you hear about my day.”

“Oh, that’s too bad. Anyway, guess what happened to me today…”

“Dang, that’s really rough. I’m sorry to hear that happened.”

“Oh no! That sounds so frustrating. Do you want to talk about it?”

Someone forgot to take the trash out. What’s their response?

“Not my fault—you were supposed to take it out.”

“You said that you were going to take the trash out.”

“Was it your turn to take out the trash, or mine?”

“Whoops! I totally forgot about the trash. That’s on me!”

Are they committed to your relationship?

It doesn’t feel like it. They always seem to be “window shopping” for a new partner.

Not always. They’re hesitant to put a label on our relationship.

I think so! I don’t know what their thoughts on a long-term relationship are, though.

Absolutely! They’re in it for the long haul.

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